This is for my dear fwen, elmo and for those out there who wants to forget someone.

I totally agree that you will never be able to forget the man/women that you loved, but with time you will be able to move on and not be sad or hurt any longer.
I used to go through the same exact thing and after being depressed for quite some time..I decided I am not going to give up the rest of my life being miserable becuase of one person. So I started hanging out more, know more ppl to feel more better about myself and every time I got upset I reassured myself that I will find someone else and I will be loved again and I will love again! =)

So yeahs. but that's not the only way i tried to convince myself to forget someone.
cuz when you miss someone, you tend to only remember the good part, the good times... all the fun things you did together.. the nice memories... and remembering this will make you depressed as you will question your judgment then.. you will ask "why did u break up with him", "where did it all went wrong" and more stupid whys..
and when that happens, never just remember the good part of your relationship.. try to remember the bad part... the part where everything went wrong.. all the hurt that u got during the relationship.... the part where all the bad thing happens.

that's how you forget ppl, that's how you recover from them. have a little hatred and let it remind you of all that.. never too much hatred for it will make you an ugly person. :) Whenever I miss someone, and sort of want him back, I always remember the hurt that he gave me.. it may make me a cold hearted person (I am) but at least I feel stronger..and the power to control my own life.

PS: yeahs. me and him are on talking terms back again. thanks to the many ppl who advised me. i still wont forget all the stuffs he did though.